兄弟姉妹：彼らがお互いを愛するのを助ける方法?

依存するもの、兄弟姉妹の関係がどのように発展するか? 彼らが競争するかサポートするかを理解する方法? 彼らは人々の近くにいるか、接触を失うでしょうか? そして、このコミュニケーションが成人期に彼らの絆にどのように影響するか? 私たちは専門家に対処します.

「両親は私たちはお互いを愛するべきだと主張しましたが、私は妹に耐えることができませんでした、彼女はar慢な利己的です. Yabedaも. 私が何か間違ったことをした場合、彼女はすべてを母親に報告し、彼女はいつも彼女の側を取り、それを例として私に置いています」と19歳のクリスティーナは認めます.

「私の兄と私は子供の頃にたくさんいました。この敵意は残っており、今では私たちは大人になりました」と32歳のドミトリーは悲しげに言います. – 私は彼と友達になりたいのですが、私の兄弟は私を気にしません、彼は電話しません、私の仕事に興味がありません、幼い息子について尋ねません. 私たちは彼と一緒に見知らぬ人です」.

私たちは自分が唯一の子供なのか、兄弟や姉妹に囲まれているのかを決めません. 私たちは両親の選択を受け入れなければなりません. 私たちが成長しているとき、私たち以外に、他の誰かがママとパパの愛と注意を同じ程度に主張することを認識しているとき、これは苦しみを引き起こすしかありません. これは特に年長の子供に当てはまります.

彼らの最初の誕生をどんなに誇りに思っても、どんなに愛されても、二人目の子供の誕生は彼を傷つけます. 若い人の望ましくないことを認めたとしても、それはまだ兄や姉妹の生活空間の一部を捕らえ、1人の子供だけに属していた大人の時間と力をかけます.

しかし、兄弟が必然的に彼らの人生の残りのために競争することはこれからも続きません. 兄弟と姉妹の間で発展する関係のスタイルは、それぞれの子供にどれほど敏感で、気配りがあるかに大きく依存します.

受け入れと注意

「長老が「競争相手」の出現に喜んでいなかったとしても、両親は両方の子供を愛し、受け入れ、感情的に彼らに近い子供たちの感情的な関与を生み出し、彼らの行動に一貫して、彼らは兄弟をお互いに良い気持ちで満たすことができます」.

jeの感覚、res、怒り、誰も安全ではない. しかし、親が子どもたちが否定的な感情を経験することを禁じず、兄弟や妹への愛を体験する義務を負わず、彼らを互いに比較せず、彼らの積極性、非類似性、自律性を認識し、評価したことがより良いことです。.

「大人が1人の子供に彼を愛している人として2番目の子供を見せ、興味深い人が彼を助け、jeは徐々に無駄になり、美しい人が成長する」と専門家は信じている. – 互いに、そして友好的な連絡先、そして仕事チームでは、そのような人々は競争せず、協力し、兄弟の立場を占領し、互いに共有し、行動する準備ができており、密接な信頼関係を維持する準備ができています。.

不均衡に注意してください

兄弟の和解を防ぐもの? まず第一に、ある子供と別の子供を比較し、対比することとしての親の行動のそのような無意識のモデル. 「5年生のnastyaには1つの3つのものがありませんでした!””ティムカはとても不器用で、彼は彼の兄弟の前にいる場所!「

「親は否定的な期待を子供の一人と関連付け、病的な役割に起因することがあります。彼らは子供の一人を「スケープゴート」、「厄介な」男の子または「悪い」女の子にします」とアルビナ・ロクティノヴァは言います。. – そして、何が起こるか? 子供は依存している親に抵抗することはできません. 彼らは彼らの兄弟や自分自身で罪を犯し始め、自分自身で罪を犯し始めます」.

この動作の理由は非常に異なる場合があります. ほとんどの場合、そのような故障（1つは良い、もう1つは悪いです）は、親が自分の感情的なストレスを調節するのに役立ちます. 子供の1人がより明確であり、もう1人は気質や他の特徴によって区別されていることがあります。.

幼少期の母親は両親と困難な関係を持っていたことがあり、彼女の子供とは馴染みのある計画に従って関係を築きます. パートナーとの理解の困難は、子供の一人がパートナーの継続を見て、もう1人がそれ自身のものを持っている別の理由です.

「敵意、親の間で疎外が成長すると、子供たちはこの緊張を感じます. それは不安、敵意、攻撃性を引き起こし、彼らを感情的に不安定にします」と心理療法士は説明します. – 彼らは罪悪感を非難し始め、お互いを大いに批判し、暖かさを体験するのをやめ、後悔する. 病気の場合、2番目は「彼はふりをする」と宣言します、「彼はただ学校に行かないだろう」. そのような関係には共感と思いやりはありません. そして、私たちが愛する人（兄弟または姉妹から）からの支援を待つ必要がないという感覚で成長したとき、私たちは無意識のうちに彼を避け始めます、私たちは彼から離れたいと思っています。」.

両親の兄弟

子どもに関連して親が自分の子供の兄弟の対立を反映する行動線を選択することもあります.

「一度彼らは私に勉強を貧弱に始めた少年を連れてきた」とアルビナ・ロクティノバは言う. – 問題は彼の弟の出現に関連していることが明らかになりました. 両親は最初の誕生の世話をしているようです. しかし、彼はまだひどい不正を感じています。彼の母親はいつも腕を抱きながら最年少で歩き、同じベッドで眠ります。.

その過程で、少年の母親は妹であり、幼少期に兄に苦しんでいたことが判明しました. 彼女は恐怖と彼から隔離したいという願望を感じ、彼女自身の領土を持っている. そして、彼女が2度目の母親になったとき、年長の子供に関連してくさびで彼女の兄に対する彼女の幼稚な気持ち.

一つのことは今彼女にとって重要です：彼女の弟を愛するように最初の誕生を教えること. 彼自身が彼女の暖かさと愛情を欠いていることは彼女にさえ起こりません. 彼女は長男に対する感情的な感受性を失い、彼女の世界では彼は彼女の兄と共鳴し、若い人に関する状況では、彼女は長老の母親であることをやめているようです. そして子供はこれに苦しんでいます」.

大人の世界で

兄弟姉妹との関係の機能障害は、成人期の友人の会社における私たちの行動戦略に反映されています.

「両親から十分な受け入れを受けず、兄弟と競争し、領土を共有し、彼といくつかの利益を共有した子供たちは、将来、国境に違反するのに苦労しています」とAlbina Loktionov氏は言います。. – 彼らは正義に敏感で、メリットの認識に等しく、彼らは慎重に見て、誰もが仕事のタスクと報酬と等しく等しくなるように. チームが正確なルールを持っていて、誰もが彼らに従うなら、彼らは静かに協力します. しかし、いくつかの規則が違反するとすぐに、彼らは兄弟の経験によって目覚めます：彼らは彼らの処刑を感じ、不正を感じ、怒りを感じ始めたり、自分自身に入り、自分自身を守ります。.

彼らが友好的で信頼できる関係を確立することは困難です。彼らはめったに助けを求めず、拒絶を生き延びることを再び恐れています. しかし、彼らのやり方で、誠実な注意を示し、理解し、後援を約束する人がいるなら（親家族にこの兄弟が不足している）、彼はこの人のために積極的に必要になろうとしています – 反応と保護を期待して.

成人期の兄弟関係を修正することは非常に困難です。当事者の意識的な努力が必要です.

「これは本当の心理的な仕事であり、その本質は、兄弟のそれぞれが家族と世代の運命を自分自身に運ぶことを認識しています。. – 兄弟の1人にとって、家族の困難な期間は、特に敏感で孤独な子供時代と一致する可能性があり、もう1つは、これらの困難な瞬間は何かと組み合わされました.

感情的な相続は違うことが判明したことを認めなければなりませんが、違いと矛盾を決定しません. すべての同性選択と解決策を決定します. あなたはすべての状況を見る必要があり、間違いの可能性とともに、間違いなく彼らの両親を愛しようとしていること、そして兄弟が行った異なる選挙も必ず見てください.

何年も補強することはできません. しかし、反対側の経験を実現することで、状況の考えを広げることができます. それらを作る – そして新しい決定を見つける」.

[Carefully the author was stubborn!] Everything is a pursuit

And you are not tired of it yet? What a bunch of melancholy? Spring exacerbation or something? So, for your information, already summer! It’s time to get a stupor, splash in the face of cold water and get out of the postzyme depression, flush the tails, finally go harsh. Find at worst a girl/guy, re-check the classics, do something useful for the homeland, or to scrap your own game or give money to a kickstarter to young talents and there will be a profit! And the universe is a pursuit or not is in question. There is a hypothesis that the universe is eternal, and the big explosion was not the first and not the last. This is the norm. Any crisis is just stagnation, a bifurcation point, when the system is at a crossroads before moving to a new equilibrium state. This is like swinging a pendulum – when it deviates as much as possible in any side, it for a second, as it were, stops in place before going the other way. This is a crisis, then this temporary stagnation is violated and a new round begins, a new development. Now we live during this stagnation and we will determine where the pendulum will go further. And you say a union … I will reveal a secret: in nature there is such a thing as the law of conservation of energy, which means that everything arises from somewhere and disappears somewhere. And this, in turn, means that only the form of this energy changes. For example, thermal energy turns into mechanical, mechanical into electrical … Matter is eternal because energy is eternal, only its shape changes.

There is no pursuit, there is only a restructuring. We are all immortal in a sense, we are all in a sense of the reincarnation of the structures of the preceding us. Here is an example:
There was a man, he died, his body rotted. Plants on his grave incorporated the trace elements of this person, the plant was eaten by a cow. In the cow now the elements of that dead person. A man ate a cow. In this person now a particle of that dead person. Cype of slices of man in nature. Here it is and reincarnation, nothing disappears without a trace. The same game industry will be, just the maximum that can happen to it is a change in the form, it will look different, but the essence will remain the same.

Consciousness, soul – call what you want – also does not disappear without a trace, but only goes into a new form. Electric impulses in our neurons with human death turn into thermal energy and warm up the surrounding space. In other words, with the death of man, his matter and energy, those who are out of him, are released into the surrounding space, where it is processed and something new is created on its basis. It’s like Lego, tired of you p2d2 – you collected a boat from these details.

So that there is no peace. A pioneer exists only in the head. There is no umrant in life, because life is life, not a pursuit. Continuity and life cannot exist simultaneously. Either a pacifier or a life. Council is all, the end, the lack of life. But when a person, or someone else, a pacifier, is continuing, and his components live in the surrounding space, in the same flowers and cows.

So the pacifier is stupid. Be smarter, choose life. Just the same way we live? In general, death can overtake at any time, a brick or an asteroid can fall what can fall on his head. But we still exist. There is no probability of our existence, but we are nevertheless, just like a gopher. So, forget it for a pacifier and stupidly rejoice at life!

Ed. Nikita Nemtsev

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Mirarant – surprisingly and unique. Continuity. Amazing – nearby. Understand this as you want. If there is a union, then there should be an anti -resumrant. Shortly after people began to use a union when clarifying their personal relations, they began to use it more massively – already for military purposes. Dies for the sake of design, it does not die. As my colleague said today: “What is the diplom? We still collect Lada Kalina, and you are about a pacifier here ”, asking the Internet on the Internet with the word“ union ”, you are faced with the fact that most of the results of this search query are somehow connected with the pranks, which, in fact, is logical and not at all surprising. For many people, forums are now a permanent place of communication. The people get acquainted, discusses the painful, shares their experience. And he does not even suspect that very close, lurking in an ambush, sits down. It is shown in the midst of the conversation, throws several well -aimed phrases, and friendly gatherings in an instant turn into a storm of Flame and clarification of relations. The pupil is changing. Turning the union, we lose our legs. I often see people who in any area, in any lesson that they do, try to fulfill the maximum, inter alia, in the lesson,. These people are an example for me. How can you enjoy Paradise when you know that there is a pursuit somewhere? With the onset of darkness, the pace of pace is intensified repeatedly. This is the best time to get acquainted with a pupil. The BBC website recently published an article that the former Soviet intelligence officer, who went to the side of the Mi-6, received a pursuit of the Queen’s hands. The article itself is unremarkable, if not for one but … In the right column on the page, a survey is held on the topic “Have you ever dreamed to get a triumph?”Why do many couples live without recording? They are afraid of a pioneer. Oh, how, comrades, it happens! Another fight in a restaurant car with the participation of Chinese warrant officers occurred the day before. The pursuit is to blame. The pacifier stimulates thoughts and always keeps up with the times. The pacifier is natural. Smart will be able to learn from a pupil. But “tnemimu” is a pacifier on the contrary.

I agree with the second and third lines. If I wanted to speculate, then why adjust this sofa (in a good sense) reasoning for a long -subsided epidemic of whining about the death of blogs? Yes, and the very word “pupil” already raped his eyes so much that it sounds just as gone as, for example, “trolling”.

The text has something “Zadornovskoye”. It seems that Zadornov also carries nonsense, but does it so sincere and convinced that he wants to believe him.

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There was a man, he died, his body rotted. Plants on his grave incorporated the trace elements of this person, the plant was eaten by a cow. In the cow now the elements of that dead person. A man ate a cow. In this person now a particle of that dead person. Cype of slices of man in nature. Here it is and reincarnation, nothing disappears without a trace.

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And you are not tired of it yet? What a bunch of melancholy? Spring exacerbation or something? So, for your information, already summer! It’s time to get a stupor, splash in the face of cold water and get out of the postzyme depression, flush the tails, finally go harsh. Find at worst a girl/guy, re-check the classics, do something useful for the homeland, or to scrap your own game or give money to a kickstarter to young talents and there will be a profit! And the universe is a pursuit or not is in question. There is a hypothesis that the universe is eternal, and the big explosion was not the first and not the last. This is the norm. Any crisis is just stagnation, a bifurcation point, when the system is at a crossroads before moving to a new equilibrium state. This is like swinging a pendulum – when it deviates as much as possible in any side, it for a second, as it were, stops in place before going the other way. This is a crisis, then this temporary stagnation is violated and a new round begins, a new development. Now we live during this stagnation and we will determine where the pendulum will go further. And you say a union … I will reveal a secret: in nature there is such a thing as the law of conservation of energy, which means that everything arises from somewhere and disappears somewhere. And this, in turn, means that only the form of this energy changes. For example, thermal energy turns into mechanical, mechanical into electrical … Matter is eternal because energy is eternal, only its shape changes.

There is no pursuit, there is only a restructuring. We are all immortal in a sense, we are all in a sense of the reincarnation of the structures of the preceding us. Here is an example:
There was a man, he died, his body rotted. Plants on his grave incorporated the trace elements of this person, the plant was eaten by a cow. In the cow now the elements of that dead person. A man ate a cow. In this person now a particle of that dead person. Cype of slices of man in nature. Here it is and reincarnation, nothing disappears without a trace. The same game industry will be, just the maximum that can happen to it is a change in the form, it will look different, but the essence will remain the same.

Consciousness, soul – call what you want – also does not disappear without a trace, but only goes into a new form. Electric impulses in our neurons with human death turn into thermal energy and warm up the surrounding space. In other words, with the death of man, his matter and energy, those who are out of him, are released into the surrounding space, where it is processed and something new is created on its basis. It’s like Lego, tired of you p2d2 – you collected a boat from these details.

So that there is no peace. A pioneer exists only in the head. There is no umrant in life, because life is life, not a pursuit. Continuity and life cannot exist simultaneously. Either a pacifier or a life. Council is all, the end, the lack of life. But when a person, or someone else, a pacifier, is continuing, and his components live in the surrounding space, in the same flowers and cows.

So the pacifier is stupid. Be smarter, choose life. Just the same way we live? In general, death can overtake at any time, a brick or an asteroid can fall what can fall on his head. But we still exist. There is no probability of our existence, but we are nevertheless, just like a gopher. So, forget it for a pacifier and stupidly rejoice at life!

H.S. I have a breakthrough of the stream of consciousness, this of course does not lend itself to grammatical formatting. I apologize in other words for literacy. But it hurt. But in fact, Manulus was too lazy to give it to some friend, for the editing.

And, I think, a postscript then could be removed in FIG. With love, under-grain

Arcania: Fall of Setarrif: Review

Eens, toen de bomen groot waren, waren harde schijven klein en niemand hoorde over dual-core processors, er waren twee gameseries. Een daarvan was de naam De oudere rollen, De andere werd gebeld Gotisch. Ondanks het feit dat ze compleet anders waren en in tegenstelling tot elkaar, betoogden fans soms vóór virtuele hees op de forums, wat beter is – een oneindig gedetailleerde gamewereld TES of de plot niet -lineariteit van haar jongere “gotische” zus.

De tijd verstreken, steeds meer nieuwe trucs en toevoegingen werden gepubliceerd, gameserie groeide. Tegen de tijd dat Gothic 3 release, realiseerden zelfs de meest fervente fans zich – het was tijd om de riemen te drogen en om het idool te rouwen. Over vergelijking met TES Er was al geen twijfel.

En nu konden we nu observeren hoe we bijna gelijktijdig door weinig werden opgemerkt Arcania: Fall of Setarrif, en dan–de prachtige skyrim, waar niets aan nodig is: en dus is alles duidelijk. Zijn degenen die de nieuwe add -on hebben doorgegeven Gotisch, of ze moeten aanvullen Gotisch?

Ga daarheen – je weet waar, neem het – het is dat bekend

Spelers die droomden over de terugkeer van niet -lineariteit naar de “gotische” velden, moeten niet worden overwogen Val van setarrif Als een goede manier om tijd te doden. Zoals in het originele Arcania: Gothic 4, hier wordt de speler elke keer op een duidelijke route verzonden. Ons naamloze karakter zou moeten ontdekken wat er is gebeurd in een stad genaamd Setatirriph, en koninklijke specialisten vinden in niet -standaardsituaties die daar worden gestuurd. De dappere held heeft naar de plaats geteleporteerd, ontdekt dat de stad is vernietigd, geobsedeerde mensen en wezens rondsen overal, en is de schuld van alles, volgens geruchten, een bepaalde demon die op de berg leeft. Meer precies – op de vulkaan.

En begint – “Ga vier sleutels verzamelen. Ja, vergeet in het proces niet om de koninklijke dochter te bevrijden. Oké, twee koninklijke dochters. Maar probeer niet eens de weg af te zetten – je gaat de prinses als een leuk bevrijden. Omdat er geen opties zijn “. Gameplay is gebouwd volgens het standaardschema. Hij ontving een zoektocht, ging, onderbrak een stel monsters, gered, gebracht, ontving een nieuwe zoektocht, ging opnieuw, vermoord – en verder op de lijst. Vrijheid van actie? Nee, ze hoorden niet. Onderzoek naar gebieden? Vlag in de hand – naar de dichtstbijzijnde onzichtbare rand. Zij -taken worden veilig gesproken met de hoofdverhaallijn, het is erg moeilijk om ze te passeren, maar je kunt ze ook tellen met een groot, heel grote rek.

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Ja, en de rest is alle “charmes” van Arcania: Gothic 4 Val van setarrif Geërfd. Nee, misschien werd alles erger.

De ontwikkelaars zorgden voor de mogelijkheid om een ​​oud personage uit de vorige game rechtstreeks in de realiteit van addon te importeren. Als voor ons om een ​​begrijpelijke reden een dergelijke held nergens lag, kun je een nieuwe hebben. Het kussen is dat de nieuwe onmiddellijk blijkt te worden “gepompt” met peper in zeer goede uniformen. Bovendien zijn al onze vaardighedenglazen aanvankelijk bijna maximaal geïnvesteerd in een reeks vaardigheden die nodig zijn voor de gekozen klasse. En wanneer we in de toekomst plotseling een nieuw niveau krijgen in de loop van het spel, is de betekenis hiervan, op zijn zachtst gezegd, een beetje. Omdat er niets meer te verbeteren is. Nee, je kunt natuurlijk een krijger zijn, de basisprincipes van magische gevechten onder de knie krijgen – voor algemene ontwikkeling, uiteraard.

Dan dergelijke taarten veranderen in de realiteit van het gevechtssysteem? Allereerst – helse verveling tenminste in het zo -aangedreven “normale” regime. De goochelaar, die na verloop van tijd is opgeslagen door drankjes van het herstel van mana, is praktisch niet -in staat. Nadat hij een kettingbliksem in een stel tegenstanders heeft gelanceerd, ontdekt hij dat hij tegenover absoluut hulpeloze wezens wordt geconfronteerd, zelfs niet in staat om zelfs te bewegen. Verder is het werk van technologie.

Maar zelfs als we plotseling vinden dat we magische energie hebben beëindigd – maakt het niet uit: je kunt altijd een beetje teruglopen. Gedurende deze tijd wordt mana meestal hersteld (je herinnert je nog steeds dat we standaard een goede set kleding hebben gekregen?)). Maar de vijand neemt ons nog steeds niet aan – hij zal geen tijd hebben.

Gezien het feit dat bijna alle missies op de een of andere manier verband houden met de moord op een hoop van hetzelfde type monsters, krijgen we een geeuwen en conservatief proces dat op geen enkele manier fascinerend kan worden genoemd. Oh ja, lineariteit laat ons niet eens een kans om een ​​tegenstander van een te hoog niveau tegen te komen. De ontwikkelaars leggen hier ook rietjes – in de meeste gevallen zullen we gewoon niet op een nieuwe locatie worden toegelaten totdat we de juiste zoektocht krijgen.

Onoverkomelijke muren van sloten een paar meter hoog staan ​​ons niet toe om dichter bij de helft van de gebouwen te komen. En dan gaan allerlei mensen hierheen, ze raken de rekwisieten aan ..

Een gierige ridder

Het zijn nog meer trieste dingen om te jagen. Ze heeft het gewoon niet nodig. Apparatuur die uit monsters valt, is meestal erger dan degene die ons is gegeven. Het is zinloos om talloze alchemistische ingrediënten te verzamelen, omdat we echt alleen infusies nodig hebben die gezondheid en manu vormen – de rest kan onmiddellijk worden verkocht of weggegooid. En bovendien regeert in de Coststralifa de helse inflatie, in combinatie met devaluatie,. Een bubbel met een genezend drankje kost ongeveer drieduizend goud. Toegegeven, en het goud valt goed bij ons – vóór de eerste ontmoeting met de handelaar kunt u veilig ongeveer dertig “stukken” bellen zonder überhaupt te spannen. Maar wat is de betekenis van deze rijkdom, als het een klap is?

Een aparte regel die we dialogen noemen. De scenarioschrijvers probeerden duidelijk een grapje te maken. En constant. Met regelmatige mislukte. Omdat de sjabloon-“cartoon” prinses, die de held aanbiedt om haar “je hoogheid” te noemen en haar dringend naar de plaats van de nieuwe inzet van haar, prinsessen, kisten, zo secundair en banaal is dat het zelfs een beetje gênant is. Sjabloon karakters, eiken zinnen, lang geleden de kreten van geobsedeerde waanjaars over het onderwerp “Kill is zo leuk” … Als de woorden “neerslacht” niet bestonden, zou het specifiek moeten worden uitgevonden voor dialogen uit Val van setarrif.

Een beetje fleurt de indruk alleen afbeeldingen op. Het is niet dat we verwend zijn door enkele speciale schoonheden, maar over het algemeen is de foto ongeveer op het niveau van moderne prestaties. Schitter op het pantser, schaduwen, er zijn allerlei soorten. Waar, water is niet zo heet, maar voor een ambacht van zo’n rang zal het komen.

De aderen in de mijnen komen letterlijk om de twee stappen tegen. Het is waar dat er ook niet nodig is, zoals een miljoen andere items in het spel.

Dit is precies zo’n gevoel ontstaat bij contact Val van setarrif – “zal doen”. ‘S avonds of twee, als er helemaal niets te doen is. Van de vuilnisbak tot het gebied met zonde in de helft van de speelbare een dag, de addon rekt fatsoenlijke afbeeldingen uit en op sommige plaatsen de overlevende fragmenten van het erfgoed van de serie Gotisch.

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Beauty is a terrible force. Attractive heroines went out of fashion?

I think many of you have noticed that recently women’s characters in games have become frankly unattractive. And the farther to the forest, the worse. Many blame a modern agenda in this (hereinafter I use the word “agenda” as a general definition of all modern Western trends, including feminism and body positive). Others are modern technologies and the passion of developers to realism. In an effort to make the character more realistic, the authors often add small flaws of appearance, but the result sometimes turns out to be a monstrous. In this blog, I want to raise the theme of female beauty and try to understand at what point the game industry turned the wrong way (or maybe she did not turn anywhere).

I am well aware that beauty is an extremely subjective concept. And some of you have the examples given here may seem inappropriate. Make a discount on this.

The story?

When they raise the question of the lost attractiveness of female characters, the left -barn agenda, which was so carried away by the West in the last 20 years, is the first thing that comes to mind. And yes, the modern worldview of Western society cannot but leave an imprint on the gaming industry.

Everyone knows about the thesis that feminists of the fourth wave promote, that media harm society, imposing on it of beauty standards. The idea is that girls should not be shy about their appearance, and this is not easy when you watch “transformers” at the age of 14, and there is such!

Personally, I believe that there is nothing wrong with the demonstration of beautiful and sexy people. With the same success, you can go to demolish ancient statues, because Aphrodite has an ideal waist, and Zeus Bitsukha and cubes on the press. In addition, the logic “proud of those who you are” of course good, but it can have a person at all the wrong way. Why play sports, take care of yourself if you are beautiful as you are? Well, then, my generation had his own goddesses, starting with Gaychka and April O`nil and ending with Asuka and Jessica Rabbit. And nothing. Girls did not particularly complex about this.

In the playing industry, the authors again turned on the agenda again every time you notice that on Mousen Kapcher they take real beauties, and in the game we see a completely different.

Jenina Havankar In life, much more beautiful than in the image of the version in Battlefront 2. In the game, the commander of the Inferno detachment looks like a swollen alcoholic, as if she was chopped off with Botox, although in real life this is a very spectacular girl.

Sarah Ryder from Mass Effect Andromeda In life-wow (Jade Russia is probably familiar with you from the series “Casl” and “24 hours”), and in the game-a woman with a severe form of autism.

But it happens that the inconsistency of the actress and the game character occurs uninhabited. Look at Dina from Last of US 2. Many players outwardly did not like this character because of the large “Jewish” nose. The appearance of Dina was given by a girl by name Cassina Karadonna (Judging by the last name-Spanish or Portugal) and, a surprise-surprise, she has a really large “Jewish” nose.

But for some reason it does not spoil Kassin at all. When the actress communicates with fans, you do not pay attention to such things at all. I think that the whole thing is in the perspective, more live facial expressions and in the charm that the actress radiates. It is so lively and bright that you just forget about minor disadvantages (are the disadvantages?) appearance. In the game, obviously, this did not happen, because both I and many other fans hooked (uninhabited pun) for this damn nose.

The same with Abby. Artist “Noti Dog” Jocelyn Mettler, who gave the appearance of this character, really engaged in powerlifting and looks like her game incarnation. Especially in the photoessia, where she portrays Abby.

But in dynamics it is much more attractive. And in statics, too, when Jocelyn leaves the Militari-image. Loose hair and sincere smile immediately transform the girl.

But with Tess From the first part Last of us Everything is not so simple. Many noticed that in a remake, a partner Joel was very old. The mouth became hollow and slightly enlarged, the nose was also subjected to “plastic”. All this poured quite a beautiful heroine about 10 years old from above. Why was it to do, if not under the influence of Aglogi-Lobby, I don’t know.

And further on the list. Sloan Kelly from the same Mass Effect Andromeda can be shown in a horror movie. The villains-twin from Far Cry: New Dawn look natural like orcs. And Sitar from Watch Dogs 2 resembles a body -positive lady of easy virtue.

Well, you can’t not mention Ela from Horizon, which, “Blitting Dumplings”, gained a kilogram of 10 to the second part. On the other hand, it gave rise to so many memes that it is not even a pity.

You can follow the women’s characters from year to year by Games “Jubisoft”. If Eliza de la ser and Ivi Fry are really beautiful girls, while having a somewhat non -standard appearance.

Then, starting with the “ancient trilogy”, the French went wrong with the French. Ayia already looks much less feminine, although this is compensated by a female gait. Cassandra looks like a man who was slightly softened by facial features. And about the eivor-woman I am completely silent.

And do not say to me that a woman-viking cannot be beautiful. I watched the series “Vikings” and I remember very well what kind of camp.

In the series Mortal Kombat There is also a clear trend on ugly heroines. At first, the authors got rid of sexualization, dressing female beads in closed outfits (at the same time, men are allowed to act half-naked-hello, Johnny Cage and Liu Kang). And then the appearance began to be subjected to change. Many fans did not like how they changed the design of Sonya Blade. And not only Sony.

Continuing the theme of “ugly” female characters, I would like to note that something else. It always seemed to me that the head of the PMC “Coastline” Nadine Ross in addition to Uncharted 4 She became less attractive. In the fourth part, she looks like a quite pretty female fighter MMA, like Gina Karano or Ronda Ronda. She has a strong, confused physique, but at the same time quite a pretty face. However, c Lost Legacy She seemed more masculine to me (as if she had been increased shoulder width), and her face was slightly heard. In addition, I was crushed by the gap between the teeth of Nadin, which appeared precisely in the addition.

But! Choosing illustrations for the blog, I found that both in the four and in addition to the figure of Nadin (and, in particular, the width of her shoulders) did not change. And I never found the notorious gap between my teeth on the screenshots. It is likely that Nadine in the fourth part seemed more pretty due to successful angles of the camera and light, as well as at the expense of the dress that made her figure more feminine.

As for the gap between the teeth, either I dreamed of it, or she was removed with patches. In any case, on all the screenshots that I found, Nadin’s teeth are white and even.

Women in horror

Separately, it is worth touching the image of women in horror. My friend believes that in this genre female characters are especially unlucky. As an example, he brought the wife of Alan Wash, who was really terrible as a mortal sin.

But it seems to me that the situation is smoothly reverse, and the above example is more exceptions from the rule. I believe that women in horror, on the contrary, are almost all attractive. I have no questions from the heroine from Until Dawn, and the captain of the yacht from Man of Medan – you, in principle, saw a more beautiful black girl in games?

To Amanda Ripley from Alien ISOLATION I have no questions either. She is quite attractive, and most importantly – she really looks like a young Sigurny Weaver. Ellie Langford from Dead Space 2 With even one eye, a head of modern female characters will give a headache. In addition, this Madame saves Isaac at the end of the game, for which the Gryffindor receives an additional 10 points.

The fact that Ada Wong, Claire Radfield and Jill Valentine https://shinyjokercasino.co.uk/ are beauties, I think, no one needs to prove. Japanese generally know a lot about female beauty. They even made Lady Dimitrescu sexy. And this is a three -meter vampire that goes in a purely closed asexual dress, and at moments of emotional excitement turns into a giant dragon -like crac.

The Japanese with female characters are generally fine. Here you are cool kwait from MGS 5, who, without further words, won the love of the Gamer guys. And Cindy from Fifteenth final. And especially NI of NI of DMC5, which is my personal weif. She manages to combine the image of a nerd (due to glasses) and rebels. And her strange manner of saying (something very similar to Ebonics) is a lovely chip of this character.

Poles are also not at all embarrassed by female beauty. Both the Witcher and Cyberpank pleased us with beautiful heroines. Whether it is the fatal woman Jennifer, who has a fad about unicorns, or Cutie Judy Alvarez. Poles, stay there!

And how it all began!

In general, I got the feeling that the fashion on beautiful female characters lasted somewhere until 2013. During this period, Elizabeth from Bioshock Infinite, and Miranda with Liara from Mass effect 2, and restrained Lara Croft. True, in the last part, the designers could not resist and for some reason increased the ass of Lara. Although, perhaps, someone even likes it even more.

But here it is worth noting one thing. As mentioned above, our perception of the character is affected not only by how he looks, but thousands of other little things. How he moves, talks, jokes, reacts to dangerous situations and so on. For example, Alex Wance from Half Life 2 For me, a more attractive girl than the same Tif from the fincock, despite the fact that typhus wears a top and skirt, and Alex is torn jeans and obviously not a styled T -shirt from Black Mesa for a long time. I just perceive typhus as a walking sex doll, and Alex is like a living person. And not only appearance and clothes play the attractiveness of a living person, but also a pleasant voice, living behavior and charm. For example, many were conquered by an awkward joke-soms Alex about zombines.

What in the end

But in the end you can’t say something definite. On the one hand, in the modern game industry there is clearly a trend to make female characters less attractive. Whether this is due to excessive craving for realism, or is it intentionally done so that the girls do not impose Victoria’s Secret standards-when as.

The fact that the developers are trying to shift accents from model appearance to natural beauty is probably good. But there is often no natural beauty in games. Realism is realism, but for some reason, actresses who give their appearance to the heroines in games look better in life. Maybe the fact is that the designers have not learned how to make beautiful characters with photorealistic graphics. Or the fact is that the real facial expressions and the natural manner of speaking give more charm than the played movements and emotions in the studio of the Moscow? This, as they say, detective, is the right question.

The best comments

Well, yes, because the same Ela is such a striped fat, I finally.

But in fact, the topic is so subjective and … blurry (xs, how else to put it) that, except for simple copyright reasoning, it is unlikely that any material on this topic can be called. For example, I do not remember from the recent games of straightforward characters. Not everyone has a model appearance, yes, but this is normal. I consider the same Abby and Dina from TLOU. Not to my taste, of course ((͡ᵔ ͜ʖ ͡ᵔ)), but they are very far from uglyn.

And I think that do not forget the stupid technical specifics of video game characters, Performance Capture and other pieces. The nuance is that even the same TLOU2, which so far any other game will give a head start in terms of quality of facial animations, is still quite far from the full transfer of the entire facial facial expressions. Put any film next to the frame from the Lastukha – and the difference in person movements will be obvious instantly.

Not to mention the fact that animations in games can be finished manually, and scanning real people in an attempt to make a three -dimensional model from their appearance also does not always be 100% accurate. The only question is how well these inaccuracies are then corrected. And even after that, there is still a dude that will hook just a random unsuccessful shot, and then it will pour it with a finger, they say, “look what kind of insurance”, and the whole Internet will pull it on memes. Then try to convince people that the other 99% of the time in the frame looks normal.

An interesting blog with a very controversial topic. There are of course loud words that you can find fault. For example, the fact that the actress who played Abby becomes a girl only when she spreads her hair (exaggerates), and who was she before?

Personally, I also notice this “problem” in games, but I think this is the norm at the present time. I believe that it should be all the same, beautiful or ugly, the main character worked out and the appearance is justified and competently built into the game. (this is about new characters). But remakes and changes in the canonical characters (reducing the size of the bust or covering all parts of the body) – this is already a dizrepect to the developers.

In fact, the whole article is “I like these characters, but these, in my opinion, are ugly, I don’t like them”. Very informative. Thank you for keeping up, author, this information helps me live .

Extremely subjective blog, here not to achieve objectivity by any discussions. For example, I do not consider the real comparison of the Ebi from post-apocalypse and the Ebi in makeup. Therefore, I will not write much.

She is really subjective, for example, half of the “ugodin” from the list I do not consider as half as half the “beauties”.

But a blog about beauty or sexuality? Sexuality can really be less, but beauty? There are quite beautiful women in the games, you don’t have to hide so much to Mass Effect Andromeda, it is unsuccessful in all aspects.

From the last thing I played Detroit. It has quite beautiful girls, well, or androids.

In short, times are constantly changing. About ten years later, everything can again wear mini-shorts and breasts of the fourth size. In any case, the market will always be diverse, there will be no “left -handed dictatorship” of feminists. It was this “leftal West” in the 60s who began to “sexualize” women (oh and I do not like this word), while the rest of the world yelled about the unequal west and the collapse of Western civilization and. And now the conservatives are shaking that they are deprived of female beauty.

We are not afraid! Everything will be fine. And women will be beautiful, and men, and ugly will be, everyone will be for every taste.

The fact of the matter is that the worldview is not a “society”, but the exclusively mentioned “feminists of the fourth wave” and other wrestlers. And those of them who managed to penetrate the cadres of Western gaming publishers (hello to the departments of “diversity and inclusiveness” in companies such as Activision Blizzard) actively impose this worldview to everyone who can.

The trend for avoiding beautiful (or gives sex of sexual) heroines began in 2014, after the sloppy gamergate, when all kinds of Anitsarkysyan were in the spotlight of game journalism and as a result of PR managers of Western companies. Accordingly, since then, in the games of these companies, they have been trying to make heroines less sexy when it is possible.

But in independent studios and studios, for example, Japanese, this trend for the urgent of the characters is not so strong. Hence the many Japanese and simply non-mainstream games, where the heroines are still flaunted by feminine forms and a beautiful face.

Ela from Horizon FW is a great example, refuting the generally strange and controversial message of the Afftar. But comrade decided not to bother and inserted into a blog claiming if not objectivity, then at least an opinion, a fucking meme. It was weak to take the screen from the game itself?

And most importantly, you can call several modern games (every younger Andromeda) on a vault, where it is difficult to find at least one ugly female character. Japan (Asia) Afftaru in the Physical Council – the last games from the series Tales of . Atelier . Final Fantasy, yes the same Genshin Impact! Maybe there were a lot of terrible women in Cyberpan?

It’s good that it is just an Afftar blog, not a serious journalistic investigation. To adjust the “facts” to the scandalous (read the hype) idea a lot of mind, and even time, no need.

The blog is entirely dedicated to … random images of female game characters and the author’s reaction to them. I have one question: ̶Z̶A̶ch̶e̶m̶ ̶ya̶ ̶e̶t̶ ̶p̶r̶h̶y̶y̶y̶l̶ in general the meaning of this? No reasoning on why and why (say, in the same Andromeda, all the facial animations were clearly killed not because of the agenda, and Tess in Last of US may now, but, Lord, how now it is atmospheric).

But in the end, after this blog, I only learned about the sexual preferences of the author. And ̶k̶a̶s̶s̶a̶n̶d̶r̶a̶ ̶l̶h̶h̶h̶ya̶y̶ ̶d̶e̶h̶ch̶k̶a̶.̶ ̶A̶ ̶U̶ ̶A̶V̶T̶RA̶A̶ ̶N̶T̶ ̶V̶K̶U̶SA̶A̶.

yes to hell with her with sexualization. turning people into goblins is not cool.

Late, it was necessary to open before writing a blog.

Sexualization April is the merit of a 1987 cartoon. In the original comic book no sexualization was smelled.

Maybe the fact is that the designers have not learned how to make beautiful characters with photorealistic graphics.

Learned, just others. But here again, the Asians will save everyone, who against the propaganda of laziness under the guise of a body positive, and rather profess the principle “everyone can be beautiful if it makes enough effort”

Specifically, on these two points the author wrote that the Japanese and the Poles in Cyberpanka with the beauty of female characters were ok.

It was this “leftal West” in the 60s who began to “sexualize” women (oh and I do not like this word), while the rest of the world yelled about the unequal west and the collapse of Western civilization and. And now the conservatives are shaking that they are deprived of female beauty.

I note one nuance-the “Levoliberal West of the 60s”-this is today’s conservatives. And today’s “left -barn dictatorship” is just activists who romantic socialism and communism.

It turned out funny with Ela generally. People looked at the trailer at the end of May 2021 and pulled out a couple of unsuccessful personnel, where the heroine’s face seemed to inflate due to unfinished facial animation. Despite the fact that exactly in the same video the rest of the time she looks absolutely the same as from the first part, for some reason they did not care.

And what did I see on the release? Horrifying cheeks of bodybuilding fats? Deliberately terrible heroine for the sake of Fem. The agenda? Desexualized and ugly woman, because they cannot be shown in Western modern culture? because how all this time especially loud citizens tried to inspire us? So after all?

Not so. In the game I saw absolutely the same Ela. A girl with a regular appearance, but pleasant features, quite a sweet and disposable. There are even costumes where you can see the sensual sports belly of the heroine and – oh horror. – shaved armpits. The ability to make Ela also remained. The only thing you can get to the bottom of a very big desire is that a blush on the nose and cheek Ela in some biomas can stand out too much. However, it was the same in the first part and in the dynamics you do not notice this at all.

As a result, I spent many hours in photography for many hours and I just can’t admire it. Fans everywhere to find a body positive go forest.

A, and yes, Cassandra – TOP Waifa!

Not the cleanest example since David Cage Remember was a scandal that sexism, haracles flourish in his studio, and that’s all this. Plus, he kind of like scenes with naked Helen Page inserted into the game without permission.

Mm … Cheva Alomar? Although, in general, I am without a concept – this is all very subjective.

Probably someone could write out from the half fantas for this.

But in the end I still did not understand whether attractive heroines from games disappeared or not? Probably, if I were not too lazy, I could also make a blog with reasoning on this topic.

But in independent studios and studios, for example, Japanese, this trend for the urgent of the characters is not so strong.

There are their trends. Plus, the Japanese have long worked out the same agenda on ordinary girls, in their style. And all the gender neutrality, crossfessing, and more strange ideas, actually dragged into mass culture.

Asians, who are they, tell me. A very stretched concept. I think by the Asians I mean Koreans (southern) and the Japanese, yes?

All other Asians are unlikely to act as the saviors of “female beauty”. Chinese holds the Communist Party by the eggs. Muslim Arabs obviously will not promote “female beauty”. That the Indians have no idea. We stay in the hope of Koreans and Japanese.

But a funny thing. Personally, all female Korean seems soulless to me, at least kill. I can’t remember a single Korean online MMORPG, where I would remember at least one heroine, they are without exception not interesting.

The Japanese have better things to do with this, they do attractive and interesting. The same 2B is very good in all directions.

Anatomy of the series – Cold Open

If the theater begins with a hanger, then where does the series begin? To many, the answer to this question will seem obvious to the absurdity. Of course, each show begins with the introductory screensaver. Truth lies in its very name. However, if you recall the last viewed episodes, then perhaps you will notice one small detail: rarely what a modern series open the credits. Usually they are preceded by a small passage, which is called Cold Open. What is it and where it came from, we will discuss in this article.

A little story

Find out who exactly for the first time guessed to “move” the screensaver for a few minutes, is unlikely to work out. At one time, no one thought to fix this milestone in the history of television, and now for this it will be necessary to watch hundreds of hours of material. Nevertheless, the approximate guideline of the appearance of a “cold discovery” is the beginning of the 1960s. For example, such a technique was used by the popular television tank “Bonanza”, which was released from 1959 to 1973.

Like any evolutionary change, review of the structure of television series was caused by competition. Just on the period of the 1960-70s, the Golden Age “of American television came. By this time, the TV became an everyday household appliance and was available to almost every family.

Increasing demand provokes an increase in supply. The struggle for the attention of the audience began to gain more and more revolutions-and at some point it was noticed that the trend to switch the channel is manifested, as a rule, at the very beginning, precisely when the introductory credits are going on. That is, having finished watching one show, a person is waiting for the next. And since nothing happens during the screensaver, attention and interest falls.

It was then that the decision was made to “cling” the viewer right away. Show something so exciting and interesting that he no longer thinks about what is going on on other channels. Therefore, “cold discovery” is sometimes called “teaser” (from English. Tease – tease, lure). This was also written by the creator of Star Trek Jin Roddenberry in his book Making of Star Trek. The typical episode of the Say-Fei series, as a rule, began with Tizer, which consisted of a small scene with the orders of Captain Kirka, explaining what and where.

And although the Cold Open segment was created for the same purpose as CliffHanther – that is, to keep the attention of the viewer – over time his role expanded significantly. It even got to the point that sometimes it was not related to the rest of the episode at all. Therefore, now it is somewhat incorrectly combining the terms. The teaser can be part of the “cold discovery” and even take all its time, but the latter still remains a wider concept.

A little etymology

Before we proceed to discuss various types of “cold discovery”, it is worthwhile to figure out why it is generally called that. And more precisely, why it is “cold”, because part of the “discovery” is generally obvious.

Most of the dictionaries, starting with Cambridge and ending with the Urban Dictionary, do not contain the definition of the word “Cold”, which would be suitable for the meaning of the phrase. Basically, with the help of this word they describe low temperature, unfriendlyness or “coolness” if it comes to conversational jargonisms. Nevertheless, in English, another value of “Cold” is traced, denoting a surprise.

The expression “Cold Turkey” (“Cold turkey”) means “abruptly throw a harmful habit”. Often the so -called “breaking”, that is, withdrawal syndrome – symptoms that occur when the adoption of psychoactive substances is cessed. Less commonly, the phrase is used in a wider sense of “unexpectedly stop anything”.

One of the options for the etymology of Going Cold Turkey says that a cold turkey is a dish that does not require special preparation. Therefore, the phrase means “doing something without preparation”.

One way or another, the values ​​of surprise and sharpness are great for the “cold opening”. The show that uses such a technique begins precisely what “suddenly” and “sharply” begins.

Brooklyn Nine-Nine

Another common expression “Cold Call” (“Cold call”) means a technique in which sellers themselves are looking for a buyer, and not vice versa, often with the help of a call or a pond bypass. And although users of the Stackexchange linguistic portal were able to trace the phrase until 1827, it spread in the 1970s.

In this case, the call or visit is called “cold”, therefore it is made without preparation. In English, the phrase “Warm up” means both the literal “warm -up” and “warm -up”. So it turns out that the “cold call” is aimed at nothing suspecting buyer. And the “cold discovery” on the exactly the same spectator, who, without any warning, is immersed in the plot of the episode.

Varieties of “cold opening”

The most technically simple and at the same time common type of “cold opening” can be conditionally called “Recap” (English. “Brief repeat”). Most often, in fans of series, this segment is associated with the phrase “Previouslay on. “(” Earlier in. “) And soap operas.

The fact is that in this case, Cold Open is just a cut of fragments of the previous episode. And since soap operas were always rich in many events, their audience simply needed to remind of what was before. A particularly strong effect is achieved in conjunction with Cliffhanger from the previous series. Sometimes the final scene was even completely repeated at the beginning of the next series.

In addition, it must be taken into account that during the heyday of this genre, the recording equipment was not very common. Not to mention the possibility of free choice of episodes on the Internet. Then, if you missed the series, then almost forever. And if this situation is not tragic for the sitcoms, then for the tied through plot lines of “soap” it was a big problem. In such a situation “earlier in. “Helped not to lose the thread of the narrative.

Game of Thrones

Nevertheless, it cannot be said that only “soap operas” use this technique. Other genres also do not disdain them. There are recaps in series that use the weekly show. For example, each series “Chuck” (Chuck) began with the words: “My name is Chuck, and now what you need to know about me. “.

In addition, often “previously in. “Appears in the first episode to refresh the memory of the audience after the off -season. However, given their exclusively utilitarian nature, sometimes they are cut off on etheric television to save. And streaming services like Netflix automatically miss them when the user watches several series in a row. To escape from editorial scissors, the segment should be more creative. In the fourth season “Raising Hope”, the characters sang a song about the previous three years for their sclerous great -grandmother.

Raising Hope

The next species is diametrically opposite to the previous. If recap is excerpts of past series, then “announcement” – Cutting the future. It can be said that this is a kind of episode trailer right before its beginning. But in the presence of real trailers who are twisting all week and even immediately after the show, the format did not get a lot of distribution.

Although such a statement is true for the most part for art works. Documents, popular science and journalistic shows widely use the announcing segment in the spirit “Today in the program. “. Turn on any news release – most likely, you will see at the very beginning a selection of the most interesting messages.

Infarction. Announcement for the preview-imbalance and in https://4crowns-casino.co.uk/ the title of the video

At the same time, the announcement is not equal to the “cold discovery”. It can easily be in its place or after the introductory credits. And with the development of Internet technologies and video hosting like YouTube, this segment generally began to get out of the video. A brief description of the release of the transmission is found in the name and even on the preview.

Another variation of the introduction of the announcement is integration with the screensaver. One of the most famous examples is the Top Gear Automobile show (Top Gear). But the highlight there is not even that the personnel of the episode are combined with the opening credits. The transfer mainly ironizes the announcing technique. Instead of the most striking moments of the series, it shows the most trivial and not related to the topic. Leading, pronouncing random words, blinking a light bulb and a floating cloud – a very typical beginning of “Top Gir”.

Among the works of art, integration is found in the animated series “Disappointment”. There, almost the entire screensaver consists of minimalistic sketches describing the events of the episode.

But in “Supernatural” (Supernatural) the announcement is somewhat united with a recap. Formally, of course, there are only cuts from previous episodes. But along with recent fragments refreshing the current storyline, the show shows and, so to speak, “thematically selected”. For example, if ghosts appear in the series, then there will be several frames with them in the “cold opening”. And if one of the secondary characters return, then we will be reminded in advance who it is.

Supernatural. The series has three sections of the Cold Discovery. The Road So Far is a large recap. Theen is a small recap. Now – goes after Theen and is usually a “presentation of the case”

With the announcement it is easy to confuse the path “How we ended up here” – They both show what will happen in the future. However, the first is exclusively a technical element, it can easily be omitted without any damage. While the second is an artistic technique and an integral part in the structure of the narrative.

If the “cold discovery” is designed to sharply dip the viewer into what is happening, then along with “how we ended up” it does it as much as possible, it throws not only in the abyss of history, but into its very ending. At the same time, almost the rest of the story is a series of Flashbacks, actually answering the question: “How we are here?”.

Usually this path is amplified by some unusual or extreme situation to cause maximum interest. The doctor wakes up in a burning house next to the corpse, or the training group instead of the library is in the house on wheels with a huge hand on the roof – these are the usual examples of using the path.

Also, one of the most successful examples of such a “cold discovery” can be considered the entry of the pilot “Breaking Bad” (Breaking Bad). Desert, corpses, gas masks, half -naked Brian Cranston – all this is very intriguing. Moreover, immediately after the screensaver it is shown by a quiet and passive loser. How he could be interfered with something similar – a mystery that is not revealed to the very end of the episode.

Breaking Bad

By the way, in the indicated episode “all heavy” there is also another path – “Action Prolog”. As the name is clear, this technique is characterized by the beginning with action scenes.

Usually, even the most dynamic work needs “acceleration”. Present characters, construct the world, designate and develop a conflict – all this takes time. Therefore, the first fifteen minutes of the film are traditionally considered the most boring.

Fortunately, this stereotype successfully destroyed Bondiana. Films about agent 007 usually start with action to immediately give the viewer what he came to the cinema. For example, in Goldfinger (Goldfinger), James Bond managed to fulfill his entire obligatory program even before the main screensaver. Judge for yourself: penetrated the enemy base, used different spy bakes, changed into a tuxedo, put it in a bar, blew up an enemy base, exchanged worships, promised with a beauty and fought. You can not watch further.

It is worth noting that “cold discoveries” are not a single television privilege. Cinema also often uses this technique, although there it is usually called “Pre-Credits Sequence” (“Segment to the Titras”). However, on large screens it is less important: you do not need to compete with other channels, there is no repetitiveness of series and screensavers and everything else.

Of course, part of these problems appears when the film is shown on TV. But initially the structure of the story in the cinema has exclusively artistic plan. Therefore, liberties with her are limited only by the imagination of the director. Sometimes the name can be at the very end in general, but this does not mean that all an hour and a half were a “cold discovery”.

Supernatural

Bond is close in spirit to the so -called “Prologue Batman”. Technically, he is also full of action, but in this case he uses it more restrained. Because the essence of this path is to show the usual “working day” of a superhero with the usual level of adrenaline and the intensity of passions.

The traditional stories of superheroes are built according to the same plan. A new villain appears, he defeats the hero, the hero overcomes and defeats the villain in the finale. But with its constant use, even with a million possible variations, the feeling is inevitably created that the protagonist is still a weak. Who just did not break out of the web of Spider-Man, which, in theory, should be incredibly durable. And who just did not beat the invincible superman.

Buffy The Vampire Slayer

For leveling such an image, comics often (yes, we are not about series again) begin to struggle with ordinary opponents. It can be ordinary bandits or some secondary villains. The task of the Batman prologue is to show that actually the hero is very cool-there is an adversarial. Just the new head of the head turned out to be even cooler. Therefore, the victory over him will bring our guy to a new level of coolness. Here is such a sisyphus coolness. It is meaningless, but has been working for decades.

On television, this path is used by superhero projects. A striking example is the animated series Ultimate Spider-Man or Batman: The Animated Series. Everything is clear with this. A much more interesting question: how can there be a cold discovery in the comic book if there is a cover?

Batman: The Animated Series

On the covers of comics, their history and development, you can write a separate dissertation. But in short, they perform the same function as the posters for films. Moreover, sometimes they are not even related to the plot at all. Although in other cases they literally begin it. There is no time for a time.

I have an issue of Ultimate X-Men No. 16 on my table now. The cover depicts Wolverine with Harley. You know how many times in this issue of Wolverine went on a motorcycle? Exactly zero. The story itself begins with six pages on which we are shown a new villain. It is they who are considered a “cold discovery”. Because only after them there is a U -turn with the names of the comic book and the plot arch.

By the way, the case described above is a variety “Presentation of the case”. This version of the “cold opening” shows a certain situation, with the consequences of which the heroes of the series will be dealt with. Therefore, as a rule, only episodic characters and locations participate in the scene.

For example, the beginning of a typical episode in the Law and Order (Law & Order) to the main screensaver consists of a demonstration of the victim of the crime, detecting a corpse and a procedure for inspecting the scene of the incident. In other detectives, when the mystery does not lie in the question “how?”Show the crime itself. In legal procedures – suspect.

For obvious reasons, a “presentation” is common mainly among procedures. Moreover, procedures in the broad sense of the word, and not just criminal. Mystical shows, especially with the “monsters of the week”, this also applies. And in “Dr. House” (House M.D.) The cold opening shows the patient at the time of exacerbation of the condition. The scriptwriters themselves are guessed by the fact that this method. Sometimes they try to confuse the viewer, “forcing” to cough one character when another loses the consciousness of another.

“Presentation of the case” is an almost perfect description of the “cold discovery”. This is literally a mystery, the solution of which will be only at the very end. Moreover, it always creates stress or action and quickly ends. However, in a creative environment, if something is made to such an extent as to become a rule, it is simply necessary to destroy it.

Saturday Night Live

Do it “Sketches”. And they are most common in who would have thought, sketch shows. And the first thing that comes to mind is the transmission “Saturday Night Live), which largely popularized the term“ Cold Open ”. Traditionally, each issue begins with a reprise that is not much different from everyone else. The only thing-at its very end, the actors welcome the audience with an unchanged phrase: “On the live air from New York, this is a Saturday evening!”.

Such a discovery is a finished and self -sufficient number. It does not have a cliffHenger or other trick aimed at holding the viewer. Strictly speaking, they are exactly the opposite of the main idea of ​​Cold Open, because after watching them you can safely turn off the TV and not lose anything.

The Office (US)

In fairness, a show without a single storyline cannot offer anything else. However, such sketches have taken root without any problems in the series. It will now be difficult to imagine the “office” beloved by many without traditional entrance sketches. Personally, I periodically revise my loved ones: about the Asian jim, the reconstruction, who does not notice anything to Stanley and many others.

For a long time, taking a cold opening that was not tied to the plot remained a prerogative of comedies. In the dramatic genre he was popularized by “Breaking Bad” (Breaking Bad). But these were not humorous miniatures, but a kind of short film, which were designed to deepen and expand the shown world.

Breaking Bad

The main storyline always rotated around Walter and Jesse, but they were most of the time only by manufacturers and did not participate in the rest of the work of the criminal empire. Therefore, the series was basically concentrated only on the “cook”. However, the “advertising video” Los Pollos Hermanos demonstrated the packaging of “Product”. Another discovery is the delivery process and risks associated with this. And there was one day in the life of a prostitute showing the final consumer. For the most part, they do not bring anything to the storyline of a particular episode or even the entire series. But very strongly affect its perception.

In this case, Cold Open is no longer a technical necessity or marketing trick. This is an integral part of the author’s creative vision, describing the world in which there are characters. Of course, there are no problems to show all the same and mainly timing. But this will only harm him, because these scenes are not part of the story, but its scenery. And in the emergency section, they are simultaneously part of the series, and naturally separated from it.

As we already understood on the example of Bond and comics, Cold Open are widespread far beyond the boundaries of television. Video games often begin with a teaser-level, after which the credits appear and the game itself begins. In the Assassin’s Creed series, the inscription with the name may appear in a few hours of passage. And the old X-Men 2: Clone Wars began so sharply that I was sure of the cartridge malfunction.

The first chapters of several books about Harry Potter were, if not technically, then spiritually “cold discoveries”. Remember the very beginning of the story: it was mainly told about the Dursleys, and in the “Cup of Fire” about the watchman of the family of Reddlov. Then it is always in the center of Harry, and only at the very beginning does attention switch from him to something else. Similarly, in the cycle of “Song of Ice and Fire” there are “disposable raises”, on behalf of which the introductory chapters are told, which do not directly intersect with the main plot lines.

Assassin’s Creed Odyssey

That it reminds you all? Cold Open? Well, actually in literature it is called a prologue. He was invented even in ancient Greece, so “Bonanits” here, probably, is still not a pioneer.

It turns out that everything that we discussed today is the topic of the literature lesson in the fifth grade? And yes, and no. Yes, since Cold Open is an introductory part of the work, it can be correlated with a prologue or even a preface. Together they reflect the continuity between different types of art.

And no, these are not completely equivalent concepts. The preface is usually completely separated, it is rather a story about a work than part of it. The prologue, again, usually directly describes the disposition and is not a natural part of the work. Whereas a “cold discovery” is a direct introduction, which means a mandatory part of the work. And again – usually.

Harry Potter

In fact, inventing terms and classification for objects of creativity is a matter of ungrateful. At any time, a genius can come, who will turn everything upside down. And you can’t do anything about it. We said that the “cold opening” should intrigue and cling, but there are those that use it for completely different purposes.

We think that this is just a short seeding in front of the series, and in “good signs” it takes almost half an hour. But we can at least be sure that the Cold Open remains in the same genre-visid plane as the show itself. By the way, I mentioned that sometimes it is made in the form of a music clip?

And what is the moral? Well, if you write the script, do not forget to take care of the “cold opening”. A concentrated portion of humor or an interesting mystery, inconspicuously help in holding the audience, is tested by time. And if you are a student of the television series institute and choose a topic for your course, here is a great. In Russian, this term is almost never found. Although, maybe I was not looking for. And everyone else, I hope, next time they just look a little deeper at such a familiar trifle.

5 palabras sabias de la tribu Masaev

Sin educación, grosero, salvaje. Desafortunadamente, todavía hay muchos estereotipos sobre los pueblos africanos en la sociedad. Mientras tanto, pueden enseñarnos mucho. Por ejemplo, la fuerza, la alegría y la paz interior, que aporta conocimiento sobre su propósito en la tierra.

¿Qué sabemos sobre masai?? Siluetas extendidas envueltas en tela roja, personajes pintorescos de la película Sidney Pollak “De África”, la gente de soldados y criadores de ganado ..

Hoy tenemos la oportunidad de aprender sobre sus prácticas espirituales e incluso usarlas en nuestra propia vida cotidiana. El antropólogo Xavier Peron vivió durante varios años entre Masaev, se inició, participó en sus rituales, y durante 30 años ha estado en contacto con su mentor espiritual de esta tribu Kenia.

“El Masaev no tiene dogmas filosóficos o religiosos”, enfatiza Xavier Poron. Al igual que los indios y taoístas estadounidenses, creen que una persona está inicialmente relacionada con otras personas, su entorno y la fuerza racional más alta, que llaman Enk’ai. Esta es la madre madre, con la cual cada uno de los vivos está conectado tanto en sí mismo como como parte de la comunidad humana.

Enk’ai envía lluvia, lo que ayuda a cultivar hierbas y árboles, también envía pruebas destinadas al crecimiento espiritual de las personas.

Cada miembro de la tribu fortalece su espíritu diariamente, farmaciaesp247 siguiendo los cinco mandamientos:

• superar tus miedos;
• Manténgase en contacto con todos los seres vivos;
• No compartas y te rodeas;
• Extraer experiencia de las pruebas;
• Vivir lo que es.

“Esta práctica diaria ha cambiado mi vida y, por lo tanto, me siento como un mensajero Masaev en Occidente”, admite Ksavier Poron. – Es importante para mí transmitir su mensaje sobre la integridad interna y la conciencia, estos dos componentes principales de una vida más justa y humana. Sin idealizar su cultura o estilo de vida, podemos ser alimentados e inspirados en su sabiduría. Aquí están las cinco bases en las que se basa “.

Ilmao: Tome la dualidad

El nombre “masai” se remonta a la palabra “ilmao” – “gemelos” en el que se oculta el conocimiento de que todos los fenómenos del mundo forman pares de elementos adicionales. Como yin y yang del taoísmo, existen opuestos, pero no enemistad. La dualidad reina en el mundo exterior, tal es el día y la noche, la lluvia y la sequía, y en el interior, donde se encuentran a sí mismo y amor por el miedo, el miedo y el coraje ..

La negación de la dualidad es el camino correcto hacia el sufrimiento y los conflictos con los demás, Masai cree. Esto implica la necesidad de aceptar la dualidad del mundo y todas las criaturas. Este enfoque contribuye a la paciencia y la benevolencia.

Práctica

• Determine sus gemelos internos. Divide la hoja en dos y en un lado escriba las características de tu personaje. Y por otro lado, compararlos con el comportamiento, lo que puede conducir a fallas o conflictos. Por ejemplo, la “generosidad” puede corresponder a “inconsistencia” o “expectativa de mutualidad”. El propósito de este ejercicio es notar la ambigüedad de sus manifestaciones u otras personas y tratarlas con más condescendencia.
• Da tus palabras y acciones en consentimiento, Para evitar contradicciones que violen la armonía interna y las relaciones con otras personas. Las palabras y las acciones deben convertirse en gemelos. Masai no permite la diferencia entre palabras y hechos, sabiendo por experiencia que su coincidencia completa es una condición para relaciones buenas y largas.

Ensipai: ven de alegría

La alegría para el Masaev no es un objetivo, sino un punto de partida. Esta es una manifestación de una conexión animada con la Diosa Madre, la cabeza de la vida. La alegría nacerá de la gratitud y a su vez la mejora. Masai gracias por estar en una corriente de ser, por poder para obtener comida para usted, por la oportunidad de compartir dificultades y buena suerte con los demás. Las vacaciones generales también contribuyen al sentido cotidiano de la alegría, el hábito de no ignorar los buenos eventos y un sentido del humor.

Permanecer en alegría, cree que Masai también es una forma de cortesía que ayuda a sentirse bien con la comunicación. Si es necesario comunicar las malas noticias, Masai lo coloca entre dos buenos. Por lo tanto, es más fácil aceptarla a quien se aborde.

Práctica

• Expresar gratitud todos los días Para los regalos que recibe, no importa cuán insignificantes te parezcan. Alguien sostuvo la puerta frente a ti, por casualidad te sonrió, te invitó a almorzar … a su vez, y también le das a los demás tu tiempo y atención, haz cumplidos, das consejos, decoran la vida de los demás.
• Colocar un pensamiento o acción negativo entre dos positivos.
• Combinar con la energía de la naturaleza. Nos permite sentir como los enlaces de una gran cadena de vida. Es cómo apoyarse contra un árbol y perderse en su ruidosa corona, sentirse como un todo con él y sumergirse en una sensación de paz y poder interno: la alegría de ser consiste en estas dos partes.

Ozina-Kishon: Acepta el sufrimiento como regalo

Masai está convencido de que no habrá despertar sin sufrimiento: la gente está creciendo gracias a las pruebas que envía Enk’ai. Y agradecen a la madre madre por el hecho de que se ocupó de brindarles tal oportunidad.

Durante el ritual, que se llama “Ata tu corazón”, se endurecen en la cuerda (símbolo del corazón) de ocho nudos que denotan las pruebas y luego las desataron, lo que significa superar. Entonces, una vez más, muestran que todo es dual y no hay otra forma de deshacerse del problema, excepto admitiendo que es y nos pertenece, y asumiendo la responsabilidad de resolverlo.

Práctica

• Visualiza tus sentimientos. Después del ritual con una cuerda, las masas representan cómo mueven sus emociones (miedo, tristeza, ira, abatimiento, sed de venganza) a su corazón y se queman allí, convirtiéndose en una energía vital pura. Así como los alquimistas en sus tigles se derritieron en oro.
• Habla con tu parte de las pruebas. Masai habla con ellos como les dirían a un amigo. ¿Qué quieres decirme?? ¿Cuál es mi responsabilidad?? ¿Debo esperar o comenzar a actuar?? Que dirección debo elegir?
• Tomar todas las respuestas, quien viene espontáneamente a usted, sin evaluaciones y sin censura.

Eunoto: Conviértete en jardinero

Masai prefiere no ser ingenieros, sino jardineros. Los primeros están completamente centrados en cumplir con la tarea, mientras que el segundo planta un árbol y se ocupa de ello, soporta lo que no pueden influir: tiempo de crecimiento natural, caprichos de la naturaleza ..

Ser un jardinero significa vivir en tiempo presente, adaptarse al medio ambiente. Inclinar la vigilancia con la confianza, Will – Humility. Tal flexibilidad da lugar a la paz, la paciencia y protege contra la ira y la decepción.

Práctica

• Toma la raíz como un árbol, En el momento del presente. Masai dice: “El pasado es un país donde ya no vivimos”. ¿Qué sientes aquí y ahora?? Cómo adoptar la situación actual y los presentes? ¿Por qué está arrastrando la carga inútil del pasado?? ¿Qué alarmas anteriores le impiden sentir el sabor del presente??
• Planta un árbol y cuídalo. Esto inmediatamente te ayudará a abandonar el juego de “I Want” y lidiar con lo que realmente es.

Angoro Enkitoo: busca la dirección correcta

La justicia de palabras y acciones significa, desde el punto de vista de Masaev, una conexión con Enk’ai. Se esfuerzan por tener un “aspecto claro y estar en un estado de preparación”. La claridad del aspecto expresa consentimiento interno consentido consigo mismo, visible para un observador externo, y el estado de preparación es la ligereza, la calma y la confianza en su camino. Mientras que la preocupación, la ansiedad y la vanidad significarían, por el contrario, la discordia y la eliminación de su propósito.

5 benzi elastice pentru mama „malefică”

Tot timpul sunt iritați din când în când. Dar ce să faci dacă te rupi constant într -un copil? Împărtășim o metodă care va ajuta să scăpați de obiceiul de a ridica vocea și de a face relația dvs. mai prietenoasă.

Cu câteva luni în urmă, când soțul meu și cu mine pregăteam cina, fiica cea mai mică a venit la mine și a întins mâna pentru a arăta ceva în mână. „Bună, iubito, ce ai acolo?„-Am am văzut ceva întunecat, dar nu am văzut imediat că este și s-a apropiat. Când mi -am dat seama că mi -a arătat, m -am aruncat în spatele unui scutece curat, dar în grabă s -a împiedicat de un obiect și m -am prăbușit pe podea.

M -am împiedicat pe cizma fiicei din mijloc, pe care a aruncat -o în mijlocul camerei. „Bailey, vino aici chiar acum!” – Am țipat. S -a ridicat în picioare, a apucat un scutec curat, a răbufnit pe cel mai tânăr într -un braț și s -a agățat în baie. „Bailey!” – am țipat și mai tare. Cu siguranță era în camera de la etaj. Când m -am aplecat să schimb copilul cu un scutec, a fost șocat genunchiul. „Bailey!” – Și mai tare.

Adrenalina a fost construită prin venele din cauza căderii, din cauza „accidentului” cu scutecul, din cauza faptului că am fost ignorat

„Ce, mami?” – chipul exprimă nevinovăția, nu furia. Dar nu am observat acest lucru, pentru că am început deja. „Nu puteți arunca pantofi pe coridor așa! Din cauza ta, m -am împiedicat și am căzut!” – Am lătrat. Și -a coborât bărbia la piept: „Îmi pare rău”.

„Nu am nevoie de„ îmi pare rău ”! Doar nu o mai face!” – chiar am făcut gâscă cu claritatea mea. Bailey se întoarse și se îndepărtă de capul ei înecat.

M -am așezat să mă relaxez după ce am curățat consecințele „accidentului” cu un scutec și mi -am amintit cum am vorbit cu fiica mea de mijloc. Un val de rușine m -a aruncat. Ce fel de mamă sunt eu? Ce e în neregulă cu mine? De obicei, încerc să comunic cu copiii în același mod ca și cu soțul meu – cu respect și bunătate. Cu cele mai tinere și mai mari fiice, cel mai adesea reușesc. Dar biata mea fiică de mijloc! Ceva din acest preșcolar mă provoacă la agresiune. Mă transform într -o furie de fiecare dată când deschid gura pentru a -i spune ceva. Mi -am dat seama că am nevoie de ajutor.

Gumă de păr pentru a ajuta fiecare mamă „malefică”

De câte ori v -ați stabilit mai mult un obiectiv pentru a juca sport, a trece la o dietă sănătoasă sau a înceta să revizuiți seria seara pentru a vă culca devreme și după câteva zile sau săptămâni s -au întors la același timp, cu care ați început? Aici obiceiurile vor veni la salvare. Ei schimbă creierul în modul autopilot, așa că nici nu trebuie să strecurați puterea de voință pentru a face ceva. Urmați doar ordinea obișnuită.

Dimineața ne spălăm dinții, facem un duș și bem prima https://farmacieromania24.com/cumpara-kamagra-jelly-fara-reteta-online/ ceașcă de cafea – acestea sunt toate exemple de obiceiuri pe care le facem pe pilot automat. Din păcate, am dezvoltat un obicei de a vorbi nepoliticos cu fiica mea de mijloc.

Creierul meu pe pilot automat a mers în direcția greșită și am devenit o mamă malefică

Mi -am deschis propria carte pe capitolul „Scapă de obiceiurile proaste” și am început să o regăsesc. Și mi -am dat seama că, dintr -un obicei prost de nepoliticos, fiica mea mă va ajuta să gingie pentru păr.

Cum funcţionează asta

Ancorele vizuale sunt un instrument puternic bazat pe știință științific pentru a combate obiceiurile proaste. Ele ajută la evitarea performanței automate a acțiunilor familiare. Încercarea de a schimba dieta – agățați un autocolant cu un memento la frigider: “Snack = doar legume”. Am decis să alergăm dimineața – înainte de a merge la culcare, am pus îmbrăcăminte sport lângă pat.

Am decis că ancora mea vizuală va fi 5 benzi de cauciuc pentru păr. De ce? Cu câțiva ani în urmă, pe un blog, am citit sfaturi părinților mei pentru a folosi gumă pentru bani ca ancoră vizuală. Tocmai am folosit date de cercetare pentru a suplimenta această tehnică și o dată pentru totdeauna scapă de obiceiul de a porni o mamă malefică. Dacă vă rupeți și în copil și vă permiteți rigiditatea mai des decât v -ați dori, urmați aceste recomandări.

Ce să fac?

Selectați 5 benzi de cauciuc pentru păr, care sunt convenabile de purtat pe încheietura mâinii. Brățările subțiri sunt, de asemenea, potrivite.

Dimineața, când copiii se trezesc, i -au pus pe de o parte. Este important să aștepți momentul în care copiii se trezesc, deoarece ancorele vizuale vor înceta să funcționeze dacă te obișnuiești cu ei. Prin urmare, trebuie să fie purtați doar atunci când copiii sunt în apropiere și decolează dacă sunt la școală sau dorm.

Dacă te -ai prins începând să fii enervat de copil, îndepărtează o bandă elastică și pune -o pe de altă parte. Scopul tău este să porți benzi elastice pe de o parte în timpul zilei, adică să nu -ți permiți să te rupi. Dar ce să faci dacă încă nu te -ai putea reține?

Puteți returna guma înapoi dacă efectuați 5 acțiuni pentru a stabili relații cu copilul. Într -o relație sănătoasă, fiecare efect negativ ar trebui să fie echilibrat cu 5 pozitive. Acest principiu este numit „proporție magică de 5: 1”.

Nu este nevoie să inventați ceva dificil de restabilit conexiunea emoțională cu copilul, acțiunile simple vă vor ajuta: îmbrățișați-l, luați-o în mâinile voastre, spuneți „Te iubesc”, citiți cartea cu el sau doar zâmbetul, privind în ochii copilului. Nu amânați acțiunile pozitive – începeți imediat după ce ați făcut un negativ.

Dacă aveți mai mulți copii, nu este necesar să cumpărați un alt set de benzi de cauciuc, obiectivul dvs. este să salvați toate cele cinci la o încheietură și să vă corectați imediat greșelile, astfel încât să aveți suficient un set.

Practica

Când am decis să încerc această metodă pe mine, am fost primul sceptic. Dar tehnicile obișnuite de autocontrol nu au funcționat, a fost nevoie de ceva nou. S -a dovedit că ancora vizuală sub formă de benzi elastice, susținute de presiunea ușoară pe încheietura mâinii, s -a dovedit a fi o combinație magică pentru mine.

Am reușit să țin prima dimineață fără probleme. La prânz, am căzut, negociată la fiica mijlocie, dar am făcut repede vinovăția mea și am întors brățara la locul ei. Singurul dezavantaj al metodei a fost că Bailey a acordat atenție benzilor elastice și le -a cerut să o scoată: „Aceasta este pentru o coafură, nu pentru mână!-

„Dragă, trebuie să le port. Îmi dau puterea unui supererou și mă ajută să mă simt fericit. Cu ei devin supermama “

Bailey a întrebat incredibil: „Deveniți într -adevăr un supermam?- Da, am răspuns. „Grăbește -te, mama poate zbura!„Ea a țipat cu bucurie.

O vreme mi -a fost teamă că succesul inițial a fost accidental și mă voi întoarce la rolul obișnuit al „mamei malefice”. Dar chiar și câteva luni mai târziu, benzile elastice continuă să facă minuni. Vorbesc cu fiica mea de mijloc cu dragoste și bunătate, și nu iritabil, ca înainte.

Am reușit să fac fără să țip chiar și în timpul unui incident cu un marker permanent, covor și jucării moi. Când Bailey a aflat că marcajul nu a fost spălat, era atât de supărată pentru jucăriile ei, încât m -am bucurat că nu o dependentă de furia ei.

4 Tipo de temperamento y cómo se manifiestan en los hombres

El carácter cambia, el temperamento, un tipo individual de sistema nervioso inherente a nosotros desde el nacimiento, no. Acerca de cómo cuatro tipos de temperamento: optimista, colérico, melancólico y flemático, aparecen en los hombres, dice el psicólogo Alexander Shakhov.

El temperamento se puede definir como “Psicos”. Si el físico es la forma del cuerpo que obtuvimos de los padres: el crecimiento, el ancho de los huesos pélvicos (así como la longitud de la nariz, el color de los ojos, etc.), entonces psicópatas, la misma “herencia”, solo en la estructura de la estructura mental. El temperamento es dado por la naturaleza, y solo puede ser ajustado por el personaje.

Hipócrates abrieron los tipos de temperamento, y luego muchos fueron finalizados la teoría: del antiguo médico romano y el filósofo Galen al académico ruso Pavlov. Hay muchos enfoques para la teoría del temperamento en psicología, pero analizaremos los más prácticos, aunque algo simplificados.

Los tipos de temperamento difieren en dos criterios: la velocidad de las reacciones emocionales y el área de estas reacciones, fuera o adentro.

1.Optimista

Sus reacciones son rápidas y fluyen afuera. Las emociones cambian rápidamente y se expresaron brillantemente: risas, lágrimas, expresiones faciales en vivo, gestos. Sanguine se caracteriza por una actitud positiva. Esto es temperamento ligero y animado: si esas personas se ofenden, entonces fácilmente perdonan. A menudo optimista: bastante superficial, establece rápidamente contactos sociales, pero no puede experimentar sentimientos profundos durante mucho tiempo.

Sanguine-masa-alenergética, positiva, ligera, romántica, generalmente no muy práctica, artística, con un discurso rápido y una sonrisa en la cara. Puede enamorarse de manera fácil y ardiente, y luego también ser dejado de lado tan rápido. Al mismo tiempo, las emociones de la mujer abandonada serán completamente incomprensibles para él: “¿Por qué llorar?? Alrededor de otros hombres!”

Es divertido con tales hombres, fáciles, les gusta, móvil, creativo, abierto, pero no siempre capaz de mantener la lealtad. Necesitan aprender estabilidad y practicidad, desarrollar empatía: tenga en cuenta las emociones de otras personas.

2.Colérico

Sus reacciones emocionales son lentas, fluyen afuera. Además, “lento” no FarmaciaSpain247 significa lento: solo cambiar de emoción a emoción es mucho más difícil que el de sanguine. Si el cólera se ofende, entonces durante mucho tiempo, si está enojado, entonces se lleva a la rabia.

El cólera está “pegando” a las emociones, es difícil para él cambiar, porque las emociones son fuertes, profundas, pronunciadas, a menudo negativas. Si al cólera ama, entonces con celos locos, si odia, entonces a la molienda de un dientes. Es difícil para él confiar en los demás, pero si confía, entonces sin mirar atrás.

El sanguín herve fácilmente y se enfría, y el colérico hierve lentamente dentro, explota y luego sale durante mucho tiempo

El mayor problema de los cóleraiks es la falta de control sobre las emociones. Tales personas deberían aprender a contenerse, ser flexibles, escuchar a los demás, no sucumbir a los impulsos emocionales.

Holéricos activos, carismáticos, emocionales, propensos a sentimientos fuertes y hechos decisivos, imprudentes, persistentes (o incluso persistentes), vengativos, vengativos. Si están contigo, estás detrás de un muro de piedra, si no eres apropiado contra ti.

A menudo, los cóleraiks y sanguine están confundidos debido a la similitud de las reacciones emocionales. La diferencia está en las profundidades de los sentimientos: el sanguín se hierve fácilmente y se enfría, y el Chlerik hierve lentamente dentro, explota y luego se va durante mucho tiempo.

Los secretos del colérico tranquilizador

Dado que el Chlerik cambia lentamente de la emoción a la emoción, entonces sus cambios de humor tampoco son rápidos. Si está enojado o ofendido, no espere que rápidamente se ponga de buen humor, lo perdone y lo ponga en los brazos, como lo hace el sanguíneo: necesita tiempo para refrescarse, queja.

Dime una cólera enojada: “Lamento que haya sucedido. Tienes razón, quiero discutir esto contigo un poco más tarde “, y dejarlo solo. No espere a que se haga disculpas de inmediato. Quizás incluso te culpará. Necesita tiempo para calmarse. Después de 10-30 minutos, podrá discutir con calma la situación.

El primer error – Reprochar el cólera de que no acepta una disculpa de inmediato: “Bueno, me disculpé! Que continúas?!»Recuerde, el cólera no puede cambiar rápidamente. Es como una locomotora de vapor: necesita tiempo para detenerse.

El segundo error bruto – No te disculpes en absoluto, pero espera a que se enfríe. Un Chlerik enojado y rechazado se endará aún más, y será peor.

El algoritmo para tranquilizar al Corero: se disculpó, lo dejó solo, esperó, hizo las paces. No sepa con el colérico que tiene razón y que tiene la culpa mientras está en las emociones. En este momento, simplemente no es capaz de juicios sobrios. Déjalo calmarse, entonces él podrá hablar normalmente contigo y admitir si estaba equivocado.

3.Persona flemática

Reacciones emocionales: rápido e interno. Sus emociones están ocultas por dentro, pero esto no significa que no estén! En el alma, la fllegmática puede hervir, preocuparse, amor … pero afuera no lo mostrará, ese es su temperamento. Desde flematic, no debe esperar pasiones, serenadas y exploits de caballero (sin embargo, todavía es capaz de hazañas, pero sin pompa, teatralidad).

Tal persona puede parecer lenta, a veces sombría y a veces serena. Un hombre flemático se preocupa lentamente y espera en las alas, rara vez tomando la iniciativa de sí mismo. Pero con él estarás “como detrás de un muro de piedra”. Está mal pensar que la flemática es más confiable que un cólera o un sanguíneo, es más lento en las decisiones, en los movimientos, en la expresión de los sentimientos, por lo que se crea la impresión de minuciosidad, solidez, autoridad e incluso sabiduría. Con la fllegmática, la “felicidad familiar tranquila” es posible, pero puede ser muy aburrido con ella.

Sanguine y los cóleraiks admiran la resistencia externa y la calma de la flemática. Les parece que frente a ellos Stirlitz, que mantiene sus pensamientos y emociones bajo control. Pero las personas flemáticas mismas envidian la emocionalidad y los impulsos creativos de los cóleraiks y las sanguinas, sus vidas “al máximo”.

4.Melancólico

Sus emociones están dentro y cambian lentamente. Cerrado, fácilmente vulnerable, sutilmente, reaccionando lentamente externamente, Melancholic se inclina a “pegarse” en emociones negativas durante mucho tiempo. Melancholys a menudo son muy creativos, entre los representantes brillantes: Tchaikovsky, Gogol, Yesenin, Gumilev. Y al mismo tiempo, gravitando a auto -digging e incluso a la autoestructura (burro IA).

En un ambiente familiar y tranquilo, el melancólico se siente a gusto y se convierte en un buen oyente, un interlocutor agradable, una persona creativa, un amigo fiel. El problema es que a menudo está “afuera” de su plato, y luego los interlocutores reciben quejas, gemidos, reproches, resentimiento.